One In A Million
Twelve years ago today I was in Washington, DC. So were an estimated 1 million other black men. It was a summer-hot October day. We had left by bus late night on Sunday and arrived in DC at about five in the morning. The rest of the day I'll never forget. I dug out a short piece reflecting on that historic day.
I searched the faces of men who were strangers, yet I knew them. Why had we come to the nation’s capitol? For many of us, the march represented a collective journey to reclaim fragments of ourselves lost in the struggle to become men. At the same time, we recognized that survival of black communities depended on the partnership of black men and black women pulling together. The March was a moment in time for black men to pause and reflect on what we had become, our successes and our shortcomings.
Helicopters hovered over nearby buildings. Government workers peeped from windows.
I felt the warmth of brotherhood and peace-—black men embracing one another, some with tears in their eyes. The day had placed us in a different light before the world, if only for a moment. Things had changed in the city that day. The March had done something for those who journeyed to the nation’s capitol. We stood on sacred ground. The march had also been about connecting with black women and our communities. But it would take more than our bodies spread across the Mall on a bright sunny day. The real challenge would be returning home to strengthen our families and dedicate our lives to building stronger communities.
Two weeks ago I watched Get on the Bus, Spike Lee's screenplay about a bus journey from Los Angeles to the Million Man March. The movie made me think about the journey that many of us are on---not by ourselves, but with the women and families who make up our communities. As many said twelve years ago, it is not a struggle for black men only. Yes, we are portrayed negatively and targeted relentlessly in every way, but we shall prevail in the collective. How much has changed since that day? I know that many men came back to communities and joined organizations; many made commitments to do better by themselves and their families. Accepting responsibility was a major theme of the march. Progress, though, is not visible in the collective. We have to be concerned about where young black men are heading. Another march is not needed, but I do have faith that we shall prevail.