I smiled. I laughed. I even shed a tear or two, as did others in the darkened theater. Not since
Soul Food (1997) have I seen a movie portray so many dimensions of the African-American community. We can pull family members together. We are God-loving, forgiving, and guided by faith. We fall in love. Many successful blacks have not left the “hood” as is often believed to be the norm. And we can laugh, dance and can cut the fool too. Somehow Hollywood has portrayed us doing the slapstick, “stepping and fetching it” with a sexualized gun-toting, drug-dealing image attitude thing more than some of the more balanced images in Tyler Perry’s Diary of a Mad Black Woman.
The movie does have its cinematic lapses but, all in all, I left the theater feeling like I’d gained something. The plot is simple---black woman wronged by black man who leaves her penniless and broke. Helen McCarter(played by Kimberly Elise) struggles to recover and through her trauma finds refuge in God and family---guided by a Christian motif of faith and forgiveness. In the end, she also finds a new man, a new love. Between the lines of this often comedic plot, Perry paints a picture of a faith-loving family that forgives a man for his transgressions and saves a wayward ex-wife from crack addiction. There's a strong Christian message, despite the satirical reefer smoking Uncle and gun-carrying Madea's(both played by Tyler Perry) hilarious lines. It is Madea and the mother, played by Cicely Tyson, who carry the movie's redeeming messages. Madea warns her lawyer nephew not to turn his back on his crack addict ex-wife. It is the mother, however, who provides one of the movie's most memorable moments when she admonishes her wounded daughter on how to forgive. First you have to forgive that man for him, she tells her, and then you have to forgive him for yourself. If you don’t learn to forgive, the people who hurt you will always have power over you.
What many whites may not understand is how an entire pop culture has formed around Tyler Perry’s Madera character, fueled by black market videotapes that sell like hotcakes in black communities. At family gatherings someone will pull out a copy of "Madea's Class Reunion", "I Can Do Bad All By Myself” or "Meet the Browns" and the laughter begins. That’s how Tyler Perry became known to most in the black community. Now it is time for the community to pay respect to his talents in the most honorable way. Don’t buy anymore black market tapes. Buy a movie ticket to see Diary of a Mad Black Woman.
The lesson: black folks are drawn to the screen by multidimensional roles in the same way that white moviegoer flock to theaters. It shouldn’t take the 22.7 million dollars that Tyler Perry’s movie grossed in its first weekend to understand this.